Gaining clarity of who we are and moving forward from within this space allows us to communicate in a different way. This is the foundation behind all of the principles within Refuze. Download our free resource here and begin your transformation. TRANSFORM THE SELF.
Welcome to Refuze!
A place for men to build a better relationship with themselves…
Your most valuable resource on this planet is you. But, how much time have you spent kicking your own tires and seeing what you're made of? Your key to connecting and excelling within your own world is directly reflective of how you connect with yourself.
About Tony Kates
Hey there, I’m Tony Kates, the founder and CEO of Refuze. I am extremely excited to share with you everything we have here. Refuze is all about a fuller way of living. Refuze to live Average. I believe every single one of us has the potential, and the obligation, to live to their fullest potential. To live extraordinary !!
See that symbol over there? That's an Exquiod. I made that. It's a Question mark, an Exclamation Point, and a Period. It represents to Question life, Demand more, Period. The Exquiod also represents how, after 20 years of depression and turmoil, I now live every day of my life and uplift others to live theirs.
Spanning from Personal Mastery and Relationships to Career and Lifestyle, I offer a ton of free resources. Transformation didn't come easy for me. I had to lose everything for me to reach this point of enlightenment, but this doesn't have to be the case for you. I've done the work.. It's all here. Sign up as a Novice Refuz-eneur for free and gain access to the first level info, tools, and tactics to totally transform your own life. From there you can decide how much more extraordinary you want your life to be.
What started out as just a way for me to process my own shit, has amazingly expanded into a real life dream come true. Having impacted thousands of people all over the world with my philosophies and productivity tools, this is beyond something I ever could have imagined attainable, until I realized it was attainable. Now I am living proof of what it takes and that anything is truly possible.
"Frequently Asked Questions"
What is REFUZE?
REFUZE is not only my flagship Self Mastery program, it’s the philosophy I’ve developed over the last 10 years to entirely redesign my life from the ground up. Each letter in the word R.E.F.U.Z.E. represents a focus point and a specific level of learning within my membership curriculums. To view an easy to read diagram of the Refuze flow, click here.
“As a word, Refuze is the action responsible for producing change. As a mindset, Refuze is what’s necessary to initiate change. As a program, Refuze is your path to implementing your change…”
- Tony Kates
Why should I NOT invest in the REFUZE program?
Refuze is NOT for anyone who accepts mediocrity. If you’re content with ignoring your intuition and your universal calling to express yourself to your fullest, you need not apply. If you don’t feel called upon to stand in your truth as a role model of possibility, providing your knowledge and innate uniqueness as a means to be of service to others, this site will likely do little more than frustrate and/or confuse you.
How do I know the REFUZE program is PERFECT for me?
You are a HERO. You put on this planet to do something GREAT!! Did you always feel responsible to make things better? Refuze is ideal for individuals who feel they are here to serve a greater purpose. If you are ready to join the ranks of the new generation of transformation creators, Refuze is what you’ve been looking for. If you are ready to commit and take full responsibility for your road to success, I have marked a path to help guide you. If you are ready to take a chance on YOU, play full out, and BE the change the world needs, you’re in the right place. If you have known all along, but just have been waiting for us to arrive... Refuze is here.
Why do you give your entire REFUZE Program away free?
I did not create Refuze. Refuze is the fuel which has been powering evolution since long before our arrival and will continue to keep the wheels spinning into whatever is to come next. I am merely someone who recognized a method to creatively visualize this process in order to motivate others to intentionally participate in their own lives. It is my hope that Refuze will offer you guidance, whether you choose to work directly with me or not. If you have any questions, or would like my assistance custom fitting you a solution for your specific situation or circumstance, I am HERE and will be more than glad to assist.
How do I become a Refuzeneur?
You can gain free access to the entire Refuze process simply by clicking HERE. Begin dipping your toe in as a free Novice Member, getting a good taste of what we are all about and if we are the right solution for you.
What happens next?
Upon satisfactorily engaging as a Novice Member, you may voluntarily move into our Apprenticeship Program and take a few of our solo courses around the block. You’ll then be considered for our Practitioners Diploma Program where we will custom fit the next portion of your journey. The final stretch, and our highest honor, is being accepted into our Masters Council,where you, and others who have reached this level of mastery, will mastermind your wisdom and experience to collectively conquer the world’s biggest problems.
What decision should I make?
You'd be surprised how many people ask this question... But it's understandable. We acquire so much doubt and conflicting information throughout our lives and with today's media it is only getting worse. Here is what I offer you... For the first time in your life, make a decision that involves no one else's input but your own. You KNOW what that know in your stomach is telling you right now. Access the Novice Members free information with an open and willing mind. It is my belief, from there, you will be best suited to determine whether continuing further is the right move for you. If nothing else the info will expose you to a way of thinking you may have never believed existed before. You can fail at what you don’t want to do just as easily as you can fail at trying to do what you do want to do. You might as well give yourself the chance at happiness. I’d rather aim HIGH and fall a little short than aim low and nail it!! But life is about choices, and this one is yours. I will be looking forward to your call...
Stop waiting for your AHA moment to come….. Create it!!
I met Tony Kates at a Mastermind weekend and was immediately impressed with his natural exuberance, determination, honesty, brilliance and passion to make a difference in the world! Tony Kates is very enthusiastic and inspired about his work. His profound, authentic desire and commitment to his own development and that of those he works with, is exceptional! I have an undoubtedly certainty in Tony’s capacity to be an excellent Coach and transformational leader! I would definitely recommend him to anyone in need of an outstanding Coach!
Tony is a diamond.. I'd been feeling some confusion about a project I was working on and within minutes Tony got me back on track with a step by step action plan for moving forward. I had a headache before our conversation and at the end I noticed it had miraculously disappeared! His positive vibe and enthusiasm is contagious! After speaking with Tony, you'll feel like you can take on the world.. in a good way.